This is an entry in a year-long project to post-blog the demobilisation experience for British servicemen at the end of the Second World War. See here for an introduction to the project and here for a brief overview of the demobilisation process.
John Aubrey discusses the problems of wartime relationships led almost entirely by letter in the last News Chronicle of 1945. "Part of the trouble is that people take written words so much more seriously than when they are spoken, and when ordinary men and women sit down to write they say things that they don't really mean and expect their reader to take their true feelings for granted." Aubrey comments that this miscommunication was particularly and tragically marked in the letters exchanged between prisoners-of-war and their spouses, or men long separated from their wives by overseas service. "Sometimes the man abroad would give up in despair the task of making his wife understand the way he had to live, or would strain every nerve to avoid depressing her with his troubles while the wife worried because his letters told her very little or were infrequent." Aubrey quotes a letter from a typical housewife:
The last letter I received from him was in January, 1944. It was short, and he seemed to be under a strain, spoke of feeling depressed, and that 'nothing seemed to matter,' also that he couldn't hope to get home for another two years. After that I had nothing until June 1944, when I received two cables. One was to say that he was all right and writing, the other a birthday greeting. I never had a letter from him and as the months went on I got so desperately worried and started to make inquiries.
Despite being reunited now, many couples nurse old bitternesses because of these wartime failures to communicate.
End of month accounting: on June 30, 1945, there were 4,653,000 men and 437,200 women in His Majesty's armed and auxiliary forces.
During December, 1945, 294,883 men and 17,916 women were released under the Class A scheme; 24,653 men and 920 women were released under the Class B scheme; with 346,157 men and 21,144 women being released in total (including miscellaneous discharges on compassionate and medical grounds).
Overall, since the start of demobilisation, 1,342,107 men and 166,234 women have been discharged from HM Forces.
Data from Fighting With Figures: A Statistical Digest of the Second World War (HMSO, 1995).
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